Wise Family
Verses 1-9
This poem is not just about Solomon’s family. It is about all families. It tells us that a father should teach his son. When he grows older, the son should teach his own children.
Solomon’s family was Israel’s royal family. In the poem, the father does not teach about being a king. He does not speak about wealth and money. He does not explain how to lead the nation. For this father, only one thing matters. His son must learn wisdom.
We can teach our children about many things. We must not forget to teach them wisdom. This is the most important lesson of all.
Verses 1-2
The poem begins with commands to listen. The father will teach a valuable lesson to his sons.
Solomon has been addressing his son or student, using singular terms. Now he addresses more than one person; scholars think this might meant the intended audience has shifted to students. If "sons" refers to Solomon's students, the term shows a filial relationship between teacher and students.
Tenderly, like a father, Solomon appeals to his "sons" to hear his instruction. By being attentive to his words, his "sons" would gain insight. Someone has said, "as the branch is bent, so grows the tree." The time to shape a person's life is when he or she is young. Good habits, learned in youth, are much easier to maintain than it is to break and replace sinful habits later in life.
Jesus put a high value on children. When Jesus was teaching, His disciples rebuked those who were bringing children to Him. However, Jesus was angry with the disciples and said, "Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God" (Mark 10:14). Then "he took them in his arms and blessed them" (Mark 10:16). Timothy received instruction in God's Word from childhood, and this instruction made him wise for salvation (2 Timothy 3:15). By instructing his sons, Solomon was obeying the Lord's command to the fathers in Israel to teach His words diligently to their children (Deuteronomy 6:7).